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uptown... an interesting take, but I know my friend fairly well and when he tells me that he wouldn't care if she found his porn collection... in fact he said that she knows about his porn collection (I grilled him on this believe me).
His problem, ultimately, is that she has never told this other guy about her husband and kids. She has known him for years (perhaps only slightly less than he and his wife have known each other) and yet this other guy doesn't know that she has a husband and kids.
He says he can get over the cheating and the fantasies... they hurt but they are understandable. It is the fact that this is a real person, about whom she fantasizes, that she has not revealed her true life... He feels it is grossly unfair to their marriage and their kids.
I can't say that I don't disagree with him.
I think there is something else at work here because other than this they appear to have the best marriage that I have ever seen... I also know his wife (though maybe not as well as my friend) and they really do seem to be perfect... as sick as that sounds.
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