Threesome can be fun, but yeah, it's usually couples looking for an extra girl to play with them and in this case it's usually him pressuring her to give it a try and then he fucks it up by being greedu. Graaah. I am pessimistic with that setting, even though it can work, sure, but not with first or second try. In overall I have gotten disillusioned with Internet, and tired: always starting from scratch and introducing yourselves and getting to know each other, then arranging a blind date and then finally getting something to happen. Chats and date forums are boring in that way, so I prefer to hunt friends of friends, like Missy said. I have tried to adopt an attitude that I lose nothing by being open so usually people who have similar intrests somehow know it before I have to say it.
I want to have a crush and something a bit more lasting than just a few nights with all that hassle. I have kinda the same taste in women with my man, but he doesn't see the point in getting emotional. I don't just want two tits and a tush, I want something cute to hold in my arms and cuddle with. I am usually submissive with men, but tend to take "masculine" and dominant position with another woman. What I want is to act like a gentleman and spoil someone. Wonder if this makes any sense..
I don't believe in femme-butch-stereotypes. Somehow lesbians are really into labeling people that way. I dress femininely and want to act masculinely. So what am I then?