Ok, here's my story:
I'm 19 year old college student. I've never been in a relationship or had a girlfriend before, but am looking for one. Last year fall, I started liking this girl that was in one of my classes. After a while, I started hanging out with her through my other friends and became sorta close to her. but after winter vacation, I found out that she was seeing someone, BUT things were'nt going too well between them. I still was devastated. I just couldnt take it anymore and decided to tell her how I feel. her response was really weird and ambiguous...she said something like "I'm not sure if I like you yet, but I like what I've seen so far..." and I was like
but she said she's still seeing this other guy so that was all she could say at the time.
After while they ended up breaking up and she told she doesnt want a relationship at that time. during the summer I didnt get to see her at all since her home is pretty far away, so i decided i should just get over her and move on.I tryed everything i could think of like checking out some other girls and meeting new people, but none of them worked. I still missed her. after summer, I started hanging out with her and her friends again, and one night asked her how she felt about me now. she said she only sees me as a friend. but when i asked her "does that mean there's no chance for me at all?" and her response was " well.....I wouldnt want you to wait...." and again I was like
I'm really getting confused on what to do. should I wait or should I move on? and if so, how?
any advise would be great.
Thanks