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Old 10-18-2004, 10:18 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by la petite moi
But the biggest question I was asking is who pays for what? When the wedding rings are bought, who pays?
we did. it's YOUR choice. It's a we purchase. I wanted a particular ring as did Skogafoss. We earmarked a budget and we paid for it ourselves.

If you want him to pay for it, then make him pay for it. Ultimately the money comes from the same tree because at some point in time it's not his money or your money but OUR money.

If he pays for it then he doesn't have additional funds for after the wedding for other things.

we didn't want any aggravation from the parents about what we wanted so we didn't accept any money from them.

Want a headache? let them help you...it may work out in the end, but IMO I couldn't be bothered.
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