I don't disagree with these points at all... my first thought was to tell him to forget about it. And he agreed that he will get over most of it... the only part he can't get over is that she hasn't told this other guy that he and their children exist. They have been married for about 12 years.
One of the reasons I told him to take some time was that he needed to get some perspective on it all. I still think he needs to talk to her about it because, in my mind, a marriage is a partnership and it will not function if they are not in synch with each other...
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