Who initiates sex in your relationship?
After I did a search, it would seem that there have been a few posts that have referenced this subject, but none directly, at least in the last year or so. If it is a duplicate for this group, I apologize.
In my relationship, I (married, male) have initiated sex for 6+ years. She has rarely complained when I feel the need so it seems to work for us, however I'm not sure that's entirely healthy. I'd like her to be 'friskier' more often, instead of making me feel like I use her vagina to masturbate (only very rarely does it feel this way). I'm planning on talking to her about it, but I thought I'd poll the audience about your relationships and personal reflections on the ever challenging problem of matching sex drives in relationships...
Sorry, for those of you who are in gay or multiple-partner relationships, the polling just got too complicated...
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