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nice to read, that everything turned out fine. usually, if distance is messing with ones security and trust, an open discussion can do wonders. But to come back to some of your initial sentiments against "frenchies", walking up to a girl inmidst a rush of alcohol in general, and having a go at her, isn't necessarely a geographical or ethnical trait. It happens all over the world, even in the good ol'usofa. yes, european are probably more open about abording a girl/guy or being flirtatuous, but that doesn't mean, that we jump on each other and fuck the living daylight at every good possibility in our lives...unlike some alk-parties I've attended in the states.
My wife was in germany before she moved to where we live now, and there were some hard times as well. try and be humble about it, you'll have to face even bigger challenges later on, so why murdering what's good before it really has a chance to grow?
what I am trying to say is; common-sense-man.
we aren't that different from each other (europe/usa). so it does not mather where you are, to find a relationship jeopardizing situation, it can happen everywhere. but you need to trust yourself and have faith in your partnership.
that is all I can say.
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