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Originally Posted by Lockjaw
if it DOESN'T come up there isn't a real good reason to tell her.
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Ommission is still a lie.
If I were married, and in counseling with my husband, I'd want to know, yes, it might hurt a helluva a lot, I am not sure what I'd do, or how I'd react, but I'd deserve nothing less than the truth.
If I were the man, I'd feel obligated to tell my wife, not so much to appease my sense of guilt or whatever, but because she deserves nothing less than total honesty from me. Imagine what he'd go thru, to have to hide this secret from her, what happens if it comes out? I'd much rather be the one doing the telling, and giving her my side, than to have a stranger or someone wiht less than honorable intentions telling her.