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That's a tricky point Shani. I'm not saying he should deceive her. If she has some kind of sixth sense about it, which I've had before and called a partner out on, if he lies to her at that point, it could make things worse. I confronted said ex of mine with my intuitive allegation and she denied. Later, I received proof in the form of testimony, and she still denied, although I never told her I had the proof. I hated her for it, but I was so totally in love with her that I got all gobbledy gook. If danbiles loves her, and can convince her of that, that can be more important to her than the affair, or the lying about the affair. In that sense, there would never be true understanding between them if he lied to her about his past. If she had proof of the lie, that would compound the sin of the affair. Tough call Shani. Still, an instance of plausible deniability through a tactful deflection would pretty much salvage the whole fuckin marriage, so I'd say the greater good should be the main focus.
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