That was pretty convoluted, but here's what I got from it:
1) your mom is mentally ill and is unpleasant to be around.
2) your SISTER, not your BIL asked you when you were going to have your mom and dad over.
3) You blamed your BIL, even though you never actually heard him say anything about it.
So far, it's your sister that said it, not your BIL. And IMHO it was an innocent question no matter who said it. Seems to me like you're making a pretty big deal out of a pretty small one - let it go. You'll be much happier than if you spend your whole life worrying about things like this.
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