Here's something I think needs to be said after the good advice above. Give it 200%, give her your heart again, find the spark between you two and if you can both say we HONESTLY put EVERYTHING into it and it still isn't working, end it. You, your wife and your kids will all be happier. It will certainly complicate life, sure, that's inevitable, but your kids will benefit from two happy people than two unhappy people. Kids these days need to find ways to look up to, and find happiness in their parents. And parents need to remember to be happy for their kids, what ever it takes. I if I ended up in a situation where I had to choose between my kids and my wife, it would be my kids every time.
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