getting off
as a female who has never had an "orgasm" i will say that i agree having an orgasm is totally the responsibility of that person
after much thought and many many attempts i discovered that my problem is that i am a control freak i can't stand not being able to control myself and my actions
i have worked at it alone with a vibrator and with others
i would also like to say that some people don't have crazy wild orgasms like one sees on tv, many women are much more internal about it and can really have very minor orgasm
i say as long as i am enjoying myself and it feels good just keep on keeping on
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