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Originally Posted by skibum
lol. Maybe I just know the wrong people then. My experience is more observation than anything. I don't care about relationships or sex. I don't look for them. I am 24 and can count the number of dates I have been on using 1 hand. Most action I have seen in 2 years is a hug. Women don't know I exist, and I don't really care. I have better things to do than waste my time. So from that point of view I might be bitter.
What I have seen however is attractive females will cheat, dump and generally treat guys like shit as soon as a better looking, or richer, or whatever guy comes along. Guys ain't saints by any means, but it seems the good looking women want to do nothing more than play games with the good lookin or rich guys and want nothing to do with the average shmoe.
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I'm sorry, but that is quite possibly the most extreme generalization I've ever heard. Annecdotal evidence, like any kind of evidence, can be used maliciously or with good intentions, and this is a case of malice.
You cannot judge all women by the actions of one or two bitches; that's just shortchanging all of the beautiful girls who have remained faithful to their significant others.
In regards to the original poster's question, if you're just looking for female friends, you don't need to worry about girls running away when you approach them. I agree with mal, all you need is a little bit of confidence. If you're in college, just sit next to a good looking girl one day, casually look over and with a big smile ask her if she has the notes from yesterday's class (or something along those lines) and she will most likely happily oblige. Congrats, you just broke the ice. After that, just be friendly.
Girls aren't the mysterious pandora's box that they're generally portrayed as; they're just like you and me, they have their insecurities and want people to like them. The most important thing you can do is to simply smile when you talk to people. You'll be surprised how much of difference it'll make.
Anyway, good luck man, and don't listen to the dude that's telling you it's hopeless. I'm sure Chris Farley got lots of play. It all comes down to attitude. Smile and be confident.