I didn't read the first thread, so I am going off you post above:
1) If you continue to speak with this other person, you will eventually have sex again. This is a fact. Do not fool yourself any more than you already have.
2) Staying in a loveless marriage can hurt children just as much as a divorce. You need to commit to your marriage and fix it NO MATTER WHAT, or you need to leave and allow your wife and yourself to find the happiness and security that each of us deserve. If you think your children won't notice, you are sadly mistaken.
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