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another thing to realize is that in any relationship without kids involved theres' a phase where you "come first" for someone. while it may sound a little selfish, this is a very delicious part of life to miss out on that will never happen w/ the pitterpatter around.there is just no avoiding the fact that the kids needs and sometimes just their wants will take precedence over any and all plans you have to spend time or considerations you need to work out your relationship. this is an appropriate sacrifice and makes sense for the kid but you have to ask yourself if you want to make it. imo theres not enough juice from the squeeze and i wouldn't put myself in that position.
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-my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.
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