i think you should avoid intimacy w/ any single mom regardless of the difficulty in holding back until you're really ready to settle down and have a family in every way. relationships just naturally deepen and evolve from spending time together and judging from the sentiments you've already expressed about this girl, you'd come to that crossroads well before you'd really be ready for all those responsibilities and priority changes that are attached. and i don't know what you're birth control situation is, but you have a historical indicator of what would happen if there was an accident in the form of a condom break or episode of pill amnesia. and after that you'd be on the hook for the next 20 years whether you or your life were ready or not.
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