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[QUOTE=mr sticky]Regardless of her "boyfriend," if you want to go out with this girl, ask her out. My wife was dating a guy for three and a half years when I asked her out. Needless to say, she opted for a relationship change.QUOTE]
Just hope she doesn't opt for another relationship change when someone else comes along that she feels can offer her more.
I'd say the girl's age plays a big factor. Seems to me that a lot of younger girls, particularly college girls want the game, the chase. They're not looking to settle down and get married. If you make it too easy, it's no fun any more. Once they age a bit, they know what they want, even if it's just sex, and they're able to pursue it themselves.
I think it's a postitive sign that she's mentioning breaking up with the guy, but rushing things along will probably work to your disadvantage especially if she still carries emotional attachment to this guy. It could aslo be seen as immoral if it seems you're preying on her, even if you ware you don't want her to know :-P I'm tellin' ya, nothing works to drive a woman crazy like taking your attention away/elsewhere. She obviously hasn't expressed enough interest or you'd know the answer. If you feel like gambling, ask a thousand girls and a few are bound to say yes...
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