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I don't think it's ever a 'good' sign when they bring up another guy. That implies that she's unavailable. I see two different scenarios:
1) It's a head game. She's looking for attention and maybe nothing more than the ego boost of someone pursuing her. On the up side, some girls desire attention to such a degree that it will lead to sex. Problem here is if you really like her or just want to hook up.
2) She's confiding in you as a friend only. Perhaps it'll develop into more, but she IS still with this guy, maybe she just wants a man's perspective on things.
Obviously she hasn't been clear enough with her intentions to you, or maybe you're trying to read more into it. I'd try to get her out with a group of people. Set up a night out with friends, invite her along and see where it goes. Sounds to me like you're setting yourself up for rejection if you're too forward. Hell, back off for a bit and see how she reacts. Tell her about this other girl you're interested in and see if she has positive or negative things to say.
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