Originally Posted by maleficent

I absolutely think it's true - -it's the jealousy or spite that's more hurtful and damaging to another person, expecially when it comes from your own gender, that's worse than anything else... and it spreads much faster.

Boys tend to leave their talk to the "locker room" and are saying things to bloat their own ego -- not necessarily hurt the girl. When agirl says it about another girl, it's is ALL ABOUT hurting the person.