See something was just brought up I don't get. People saying they don't see themselves being able to stay married for more than a few years. Not a slam intended by any means but I wonder why people with that mind set even bother? It's like going into things with a defeatest attitude. Marriage isn't for everybody and in our society it's not even like the thing is based upon any kind of morals so I don't see what the big deal is with getting with someone and just not marrying. Personally that particular choice isn't for me if I'm going to cohabit with someone I want to be married otherwise I don't want them in my house all the time.