I was raised in the deep south...I was raised to think it ungentlemanly and rude for a man to not open doors, pull out chairs, pay for the date...unless otherwise prearranged....to this day I still enjoy that and I wont apologize for it. I understand that there are women out there that will be in the eternal struggle for equal rights....and bully for them.....but I still have the right to expect to be treated like a lady and let the man do the "manly" work of lifting, carrying, opening doors etc.