Call me old fashioned but I'm all for the traditional marriage that results in the stereotypical 2.5 kids that lasts for life. This is likely my most "feminine" quality in that since I was a little kid I always wanted a family of my own. I want a loving wife and a cozy home. I want the kids that will grow up to be fairly well adjusted due to the love my future wife and I share and demonstrated. Personally I feel people in a strong loving marriage are able to provide more on a relational level than the average person that isn't. Those kind of people will be the folks that will stick with you through thick and thin. The kind of folks you can count on.
Don't get me wrong I'm still a young man that wouldn't mind sampling as much as he can...but when that one lady comes along I honestly don't think I'll have a problem being locked down with her for life. It's somebody you can share things you can't share with anybody else. I dunno about you guys but I sharing your deepest most unguarded thoughts isn't an option with my guy friends. I'd feel uncomfortable even talking about anything deeper than the weather with my female friends, and there are also things you can't share with parents or siblings but I think you can share those things with your life long partner. And while sex IS important after a while if there aren't any type of feelings behind it...what's the use? I mean I'd hate to be a 55 year old dude just hammering some skank because I thought she was hot with nothing else behind it. It just seems pointless. If I want that...that's why they make the porn.
