I expect a guy to hold a door open for me, pull out my chair..etc.. because I feel that its very gentleman-like. I enjoy it. I dont see anything wrong with it.
Women should be treated equally, but that will never happen. Just like it'll never happen that racism will stop. Women HAVE come a long way, but I feel that some girls these days dont appreciate nor do they understand the meaning behind the freedoms they have today.
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"and the first ones to give girls the slut rep is other girls"
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Is that true? (And I'm not being sarcatic when I ask)
I think guys are more fond of the word 'slut' than other girls. Girls usually say it out of jealousy or spite, but guys say it because they mean it.
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Today, young women seem so absorbed in appearances that they are forgetting to ask for respect for their minds and capabilities. I hope I'm wrong but the evidence points that way, doesn't it?
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It sure does seem like they're all about the looks. I think that's partly due to "stages" that some girls go through--and of course MTV showing 17 y/o girls dressing like a dirty skank doesn't help. I'm getting really tired of seeing 13-16 y/o girls trying to look and ACT (this especially bothers me) 25, instead of focusing on being successful in school or whatever else they do. I remember enjoying my youth and young age, not trying to rush through it. In fact, I tried putting off the whole "growing up" concept, but just couldn't escape it.
I probably read the original post wrong or something, but I had to let my opinion be known.