naww... this girl is trouble.
it sounds like she thinks you're just someone to prop up her self esteem while she gets over the other guy. i don't know how many times i've seen a girl say she wasn't ready to date... yet end up going out with a guy a couple days later. don't think i'm being misogynistic, but girls really do often have a problem with this. maybe they're just trying to spare your feelings, maybe they're unrealistic about their own, maybe they're just outright lying... fact is: they rarely mean what they say with this kind of talk.
take the advice of the previous posters. ignore her for a while and see if she chases you. maybe she will, maybe she won't... at least you won't spend the next weeks/months following her day-to-day whims.
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If you will not fight when your victory will be sure and not too costly, you may come to the moment when you will have to fight with all the odds against you and only a precarious chance for survival. There may even be a worse case. You may have to fight when there is no hope of victory, because it is better to perish than to live as slaves.
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