I dated a single dad for over a year... parents are still people, just be honest with her and yourself about where your priorities are.. She may not be looking for a new daddy for her child, don't take on that role.
depending on where you want this to go, is what kind of relationship you want with the child -- because they do come as a set, and kids get attached pretty quickly (I still hear from the daughter of the guy I dated, almost 8 years later.)
Sometimes babysitters do cancel, and the kidlet might join you - decide how you feel about that
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