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StickODynomite · 10-07-2004, 10:09 PM

I agree with squishor and junglistic.

I also cannot stand being pressured to orgasm. My SO felt bad for the longest time about not being able to make me orgasm. It was very difficult for me to orgasm because I kept thinking that If I didn't orgasm he would feel bad, and that started a vicious cycle. Neither one of us had fun. It's hard to relax when you know that your SO is thinking that if you dont orgasm, they didn't do a good job. The LAST thing you want to do when you're having sex is THINK.

Best of luck to ya.

10-07-2004, 10:09 PM	#4 (permalink)
StickODynomite Insane Location: Arizona :\|	I agree with squishor and junglistic. I also cannot stand being pressured to orgasm. My SO felt bad for the longest time about not being able to make me orgasm. It was very difficult for me to orgasm because I kept thinking that If I didn't orgasm he would feel bad, and that started a vicious cycle. Neither one of us had fun. It's hard to relax when you know that your SO is thinking that if you dont orgasm, they didn't do a good job. The LAST thing you want to do when you're having sex is THINK. Best of luck to ya. __________________ "The human mind is like a parachute, it works best when open."