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Well from a woman's perspective, it sounds to me like the main problem is in your own mind. I have a happy, active and fulfilling sex life and I never orgasm from penetration, and only rarely from someone else's efforts. I'm sure she means it when she says sex with you is wonderful. It sounds like she's enjoying it, a lot. And, really, you've only been together three months, so why not relax and give you both some time to get a little better acquainted with each other's bodies?
If you feel so strongly that you should be able to give her an orgasm, she may start to feel pressured and inadequate. This could potentially ruin what sounds like a good thing. Speaking as someone who's been in her position, my personal experience has been that ultimately I get turned off by this scenario. I prefer not to feel pressured by men to climax how they want me to, when they say I should, and from what type of stimulation.
When I got together with my current boyfriend the orgasm thing was a concern, but he was patient and I showed him what works for me. Eventually he learned to make it happen for me and, although it's still only sometimes, it's always much much better when it does. I don't feel like I'm missing out at all.
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