Ok, a little history here...I was young when I discovered that playing with this thing between my legs was fun. In fact, I remember that I had orgasms as young as 11 (no cum though, just it felt really good). Technique has been developed since then (now 20) and I've been set in a pattern since I was about 13. Basically every night before I go to bed I rub one out.
Because of my early start, I've never had a wet dream. Not once. I feel like I've missed out on something. I know some people say that its annoying because of the mess, but others report the great dreams that go along with the orgasm (see
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/archive...p/t-16145.html ).
Searching the web about wet dreams has driven me to this conclusion: less yank, more wet dreams. It is commonly thought that the body has a wet dream to expell the old sperm when there is no sexual outlet, but I have also found a website that says this idea was old science. Apparently the body can recycle old sperm. One thing that still does remain true is that people that do not masturbate or have sex regularly seem to have more wet dreams (probably has something to do with a need of a hormone release that is triggered by a orgasm).
With this being said, and the fact that I want a wet dream, I've abstained without masturbating. So far I'm on day #7 without any orgasms. I've been through what it appears to me as withdrawal symptoms.
1. I'm horny all the time and any time I have free time I spend it thinking about sex (granted this is what most guys do, but this is MUCH more noticeable now that I've abstained from masturbation).
2. I think I've become more irritable. Could just be regular things related to sleep (which I'll get into) or diet causing this.
3. Sleep...oh man this is an interesting one. First, because I've made it my routine for many years, each time I go to bed without masturbating, I feel odd as if something has been forgotten.
Secondly, I seem to fall asleep normally, but the last 4 nights I've woken up around 12-4 am. I find myself very horny (but no splooge). By very, I mean VERY horny. If you ever try and fall asleep horny, you'll know that its very difficult. If you haven't had that opportunity, believe me, its very difficult. In fact, I've found myself halfway in dream world and half way awake when trying to fall back asleep after awaking. I can hear everything around me in full conscience, but I'm still having dreams. No matter what I tried (relaxing my body, thinking of something boring, clearing my mind, etc, things that normally work when I can't fall asleep when I'm not horny) I could not completely get into slumber land. I finally tried some situps/pushups last night to exhaust my body and that seemed to work and turn off the horny.
So basically I wrote this just to tell about an experience I'm currently in. Maybe a few other people could try abstaining from any sexual experiences and see if their results are similar. I think I may have a very hyper sex drive and this could be why I'm experiencing such bizarre things.
And for you that have had wet dreams, about how long after you stopped sexual activity did it take for the wet dream to occur?