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Originally Posted by StickODynomite
I love my SO, and if we do nothing (meaning, going no where, not doing anything new, or watching a movie at the theaters) for a LONG period of time, I get bored--not necessarily of HIM, but I am bored when he's around still. If that makes sense.. I'd think most people would get bored in that situation.
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You just said it - he doesn't bore you -- the situation bores you..
That's a big difference.
If someone bores you -- and that's a someone bores you, you know, and it's not a relationship that you want to, or should stay in because long term, it's not going to work out.
I have met countless people over the decades who just bore me, they are always singing the same tune -- their job sucks, their life sucks, everything sucks, -- but don't do anything to change it... YAWN... It's not up to me to change them or constantly stimulate them... I do what I can - and if it's not there, it's not there...