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If you are getting bored with them, then they aren't the right one and you should move on.
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How do you know this is absolutely true though..?
I can see how someone could get bored of another person, even if they do love them. If you're doing nothing but work and then sitting at home watching TV, then things will inevitably be boring. Right?
I love my SO, and if we do nothing (meaning, going no where, not doing anything new, or watching a movie at the theaters) for a LONG period of time, I get bored--not necessarily of HIM, but I am bored when he's around still. If that makes sense.. I'd think most people would get bored in that situation.
Not to mention if my SO is on the computer all day or watching TV all day, I get bored of him because nothing entertaining is going on and we're not exchanging any meaningful words.
I do love him, but sometimes things get boring when you're with someone for a while. It happens. You just have to add the excitement.
Keep it interesting. I personally haven't been so bored that I would leave him. We talk about what's going on and we find a way to get through it.
And.. he's a wonderful conversationalist. We have everything in common and he always makes me laugh. I'm happy.. but I do get bored. I just think some women are more prone to getting "bored" than others, and i dont know why that would be.