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Originally Posted by la petite moi
Dude, as an eighteen year old girl, I must say: WAIT TO LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY TO SOMEONE YOU KNOW WILL APPRECIATE YOU FOR MORE THAN YOUR FREAKING MONEY! Do not go out and get yourself a prostitute, even if you DO have such a low self-esteem (trust me, I had a horrible self-esteem until I got into the wonderful relationship I'm in now)- a whore may have diseases, will probably fake orgasms (which isn't fun), and will probably not be too hot.
Now, for the fake vagina- it's not going to give you any diseases, but it's going to feed your depressed state. Get out and start making relationships, and stop feeling sorry for yourself. I've been in your position and although my esteem isn't super high, it's way better now that I have someone that I know cares about me.
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I would have to agree with La Petite on this one....I lost mine when I was 20 and it was alright. The first time wasnt the greatest for me because even though the chick was a friend it was a spur of the moment thing. Wait till you get a g/f or someone that cares about you and that will make a lot more of a difference in your first time. Stay away from the skanks and toys because they are just temp things that will just piss you off later. Go to the gym or something, get out more and don't be scared to approach a chick. I can't relate to the low self esteem issue because I personally think I am hot but I wont go there LOL....just get a group of friends together, go out and have fun and if you see a chick you think is hot go talk to her....I mean, what is the worst thing she can say, no??? Move on to the next chick if you get a no but dont take it to heart. Most chicks I meet just want to have fun and don't want a relationship so when I start to get close they freak out. Basically they are just immature or not ready to handle my madness. GO TEST THE WATERS BRO!!!!!