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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq
Their house, their rules.
Don't like it? Get a job, get an apartment and get out.
They do things that I don't agree with.
Don't like it? Get a job, get an apartment and get out. See above rule
They don't treat me like an adult...curfew, rules, etc.
If you don't act like one, why should anyone treat you as such? If you need more clarification see Their house, their rules.
They promised they would pay for...
Your parents don't owe you anything especially once you've turned 18. You are considered an adult by the eyes of the government. Act like one.
My parents are doing...
You may not like it, you may not agree with it. But they deserve to do whatever they please even if you find it illegal, immoral etc. "Do as I say and not as I do" is a perfectly good and fair statement for them to say to you.
My parents did this to me when growing up.
Short of illegal things such as molestation and abuse, they did their best, sometimes they did crappy things, you are responsible for your life.
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First of all, getting a job and getting out (effectively running away from your problems) is NOT the first and best option. The first and best option is discussing it with your parents in a mature fashion.
Secondly, parents don't necessarily treat their children like adults just because the children act like adults. Many times, the curfews, etc, are in place purely out of emotional security issues the parents have.
Thirdly, saying that your parents don't owe you anything is a bit much. They brought you into this world, and while you should be thankful for what they do give you, it is also, in my opinion, their responsibility to provide for you and try to give you the best start on life they can.
I do agree with the comment that parents are doing their best however, despite what might be seen as mishaps or screwups. They think it's best, so don't fault them for it in that regard.
I just had to make this post because of how strongly I disagreed with the majority of your statements. Not trying to bust your balls or anything, we just happen to have a difference of opinion.
