Originally Posted by arch13

The last thing you want to do, is as mentioned just go shoving your fingers in. I'm going to assume you familiar with the female body at least somewhat (if your not then go study the tittie board).

1. Realize that a womans erotic zones encompass more than just her actuall vagina (ohhhhhh, steral terms) This should be something that is led up to with heavy kissing an petting. it's going to be less than half as enjoyable if she's not ready and wet.

2.As stated, flatten your fingers (usualy two will do nicely) and begine to massage the clitoris in a SLOW rotational manner. it's located at the top of her vagina inside several folds of skin. It's extremly senstive and won't come out to play until she's further aroused, so rub the folds of skin at the top gently.

3. pay attention to her breathing and body signs. subtly she's letting you know what feels good, you just have to listen for the no-verbal signs. ask her what feels good

4. realize that your hand is going to get tired the first time you do this. Deal with it. you don;t want to know how her neck feels after blowing you. increase the tempo ever so slightly as her breathing increases. again, use her breathing and the reactions of her body as signs to increase speed.

5. By the time you've got a reasonable speed going, she'll proabably be wondering when your going inside, but slightly delaying your ahhhhm "entrance" is going to make it all the better when you do.

6. keep your pointer finger on her clit, continuing to massage it, begine to use your middle finger and run it up and down the length of her vaginal lips, from bottom to top. you'll notice how wet she is almost immediatly but you need to spread that wetness all over her vagina and liberally coat your fingers with it before you can enter her.

7.after you feel that your finger is sufficiantly wet, use the tip of your middle finger and press it at the base of her vagina. slide it gently in to your first joint and then slowley back out. just like with the clit, you need to pick up tempo slowly. The faster the tempo, the more you slide into her.

8. Go with your gut. get her feedback. do as little or as much as you think she'd like. Pay attention to her and the way's she likes this done will begin to show with practice.

Above all else remember that it's her body, so she call the shots on what happens to it.

Enjoy yourselves kids.

and just how old are you by the way?