Rlyss

Good advice here. My first time was in the early evening, the sky was overcast and it was about to rain heavily. We turned the lights off, opened the curtains and the whole room was bathed in blue light. We spent from about 3pm until way past midnight, and she was very understanding with me. I think I'm one of the few people that can say my first time was how I wanted it.

I think I rambled a bit, but my point is that there are some pressures you can't do much about (coming too soon, or not at all, etc.) and some you can deal with, like spending all day naked in bed with her, having sex, fooling around, just lying down and staring at the ceiling and talking, or facing each other, that sort of thing. Don't let your first time be rushed.