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CHollman82 · 10-02-2004, 10:26 PM

Ugliness isn't realy the issue, most people think they are unatractive. The only time ugliness will hurt you is when you ask a girl out for the first time. If you are attractive, you will have the opportunity to get to know more people through dating, but it is not impossible to do the same if you are not. You will just have to work harder at convincing the girl to go out the first time. If you just start asking out anyone you think you would like to spend time with you will be amazed at how many dates you get. You will get rejected a lot but get used to it, its not the end of the world, and most girls will be nice about. As far as uninteresting goes, I don't believe in it. No matter how boring you are to somebody, there are other people that will enjoy your company. "uninteresting" is a relative term, dependant on a third party, what I mean is somebody, even most people, may find you "uninteresting", but that doesn't mean that everyone will. You have to find the person that is right for you, it just takes time.

While I was writing all this my girlfriend gave me some advice to give to you. She said that the secret of all the "attractive" guys is that they are open and honest and will say whatever they think of. They are confident in themselves and show it in conversation and social situations. She says that this is what makes them attractive, and they can do this because they understand that if the girl doesn't like them there is another one waiting in line. So, she says to just realize that there is another girl just around the next corner, it will help take the preassure off, be yourself, don't worry about being cool, or even making her like you. You shouldn't have to make the girl like you, or trick her into liking you, by putting on a show. The most import thing I can tell you will seem like the most trivial, because you can say it over and over but actually doing it is very difficult; just be yourself. The whole point of dating is to find that perfect person for you, who you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you give someone a false impression of you, it will just end up hurting things down the line, you won't be able to keep it up forever, and eventually she will find out you are not the person she thought you were, and probably eventually leave you.

10-02-2004, 10:26 PM	#22 (permalink)
CHollman82 Upright	Ugliness isn't realy the issue, most people think they are unatractive. The only time ugliness will hurt you is when you ask a girl out for the first time. If you are attractive, you will have the opportunity to get to know more people through dating, but it is not impossible to do the same if you are not. You will just have to work harder at convincing the girl to go out the first time. If you just start asking out anyone you think you would like to spend time with you will be amazed at how many dates you get. You will get rejected a lot but get used to it, its not the end of the world, and most girls will be nice about. As far as uninteresting goes, I don't believe in it. No matter how boring you are to somebody, there are other people that will enjoy your company. "uninteresting" is a relative term, dependant on a third party, what I mean is somebody, even most people, may find you "uninteresting", but that doesn't mean that everyone will. You have to find the person that is right for you, it just takes time. While I was writing all this my girlfriend gave me some advice to give to you. She said that the secret of all the "attractive" guys is that they are open and honest and will say whatever they think of. They are confident in themselves and show it in conversation and social situations. She says that this is what makes them attractive, and they can do this because they understand that if the girl doesn't like them there is another one waiting in line. So, she says to just realize that there is another girl just around the next corner, it will help take the preassure off, be yourself, don't worry about being cool, or even making her like you. You shouldn't have to make the girl like you, or trick her into liking you, by putting on a show. The most import thing I can tell you will seem like the most trivial, because you can say it over and over but actually doing it is very difficult; just be yourself. The whole point of dating is to find that perfect person for you, who you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you give someone a false impression of you, it will just end up hurting things down the line, you won't be able to keep it up forever, and eventually she will find out you are not the person she thought you were, and probably eventually leave you.