Hey there guys. Since I'm not known here, mostly cause I can't help anyone yet (I'll get to that in a few), I'll introduce myself. I'm 18, a male, a virgin, that leads me right into it. Now you might be sick of virgins around here, but I'll still annoy you anyway
. So the deal is that I have a girlfriend who I've been with for some months, I've known her for years, and I love her very much. She is the first person I have been involved sexualy, so everything that happens is basicly brand new. Which leads to every experience to be quite "stimulating" for me, I'll just go ahead and say that I havent lasted very long, this is concerning handjobs and blowjobs. I've been very excited everytime we are together, pretty much constant hard-on. So I am chalknig this up to inexperience. But I can't be totaly satisfied with that, of course I am a man and all things about my sexuality I must question. So onto bigger things, it's getting to the point where I, idealy ,would like to have sex with her, she has had one partner before. Now I'm taking this very seriously, and she has to be the most understanding person in the world. I really am waiting till im sure about this. But there is part of me that is having irrational fear about the whole thing. I'm putting most of it on my sexual performance thus far, which has been rather speedy, lol. I definitely know I need to be with her much more before I have sex with her and shes good with that. I think the fear is that I'll never be able to hold back long enough for enjoyable sex. See, if I can put that fear to rest I can get closer to being with her like I want. And if you tell me I'm not ready at all right now I'll believe and trust ya, just give me some advice if you do. Thanks for your time, I'm open to all comments, just your own experiences could help me out too. Thanks.