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i can tell u about my experiance as a woman...
i have never orgasmed from straight intercourse..., never even came close...so i masturbate while having intercourse...this can be a little awkward at first, but, you'll find a position that will work, and i am sure your husband wants you to get pleasure from the experiance as well
i have been masturbating since i was 12...my mom bought me a book on sex and "why u r changing" and such...and it covered masturbation...and i thought it sounded interesting. so i tried it..lol...i usually don't have any sort of wild fantasies while masturbating...and i am married, and my husband and i both still masturbate..sometimes you just are too tired..lol...
i would suggest , that you masturabate together. it may seem embarrassing, but i would hope that over time, you would grow comfortable enough with each other to trust that the other won't think you are stupid..
length of time has varied from guy to guy, and their excitement level...he has been waiting a long time to have sex...and it does take practice ..a lot to get it right...it's not like in the movies where everythign is clean and perfect..lol...
you'll do fine...just don't get to uptight and worried..that ruins everything
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