Have you talked you your wife about what you are feeling? Not the frustration part of it, that would just put her in the defensive but just talk about how she might be feeling about your sex life, or lack there of?
Try going out for an evening, drop the kidlet with someone you trust and won't worry,a nd just go out with the two of you -- and see if that helps.
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Originally Posted by windaelicker
I am just curious as to others' experiences with this sort of thing. I know that my good (female) friend said she hasn't used the pill in years because of this. Instead she uses condoms... and I can't relish the thought of using condoms again... my wife and I have not used condoms since we were first together almost ten years ago.
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If you don't want to worry about birth control, there are permanent steps you can take to prevent it, I'm sure your wife would be grateful to not have to be on birth control pills anymore.