09-29-2004, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by ravenradiodj
Don't you just love how the adjective "fat" is always taken as a negative? I'm a big guy who appreciates beautiful women in ALL sizes. IMHO, some big people look good big, and some look awful and unhealthy and unhappy. Ditto thin people, average people, etc. The fact is, we're all way too obsessed with our physical appearances. Because I'm middle-aged, I am starting to make an effort to eat better and stay active, but, to be honest, I am far more worried about my spiritual health, which I believe is eternal, than my physical health, which is terribly short-lived. In a hundred years, my body will be dust, and whether it was fat or buff won't matter; my soul, however, will still be around, working out its karma, so it gets priority attention from me over my thighs. Then again, I could be wrong.
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oh Hell yeah....
and I like cityofangel's suggestions as well. Don't feed into the negativity. If she WANTS you to go with her to counseling, great, if not, it's okay too..
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