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she is upset at the fact that I was telling her that I would do anything to come visit and then I just changed my mind
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sounds to me like you didn't just change your mind, but agonized over making a tough decision, and in the end made the one you could live with. you might not ever be able to make up for not going, but at the same time, it wouldn't have worked if the only reason you went was because you felt guilty.
seconds on the best wishes on the draft.
oh yeah, and seriously, what part of france is she in? i lived in Nancy for a while when I was a younger man