I'm in agreement with the majority. She needs to realize that sex is a two way street. From what you've described, she sounds pretty immature to be having sex. Believe me, I've dated a few in the past. You also sound like you have some growing up to do. Absent you taking any medication, the fact that you're losing your erection when you two are starting to get intimate is normal. If she is your first sexual partner then I'd say you're just nervous. You're not alone, it happened to me too the first few times I had sex. You both need to relax and realize that sex isn't a "hurry up' session. Just enjoy each other and things should flow naturally.
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