She's somewhat young, and sounds inexperienced, not that there's anything at all wrong with that... What's her relationship history? I am well aquainted with the pushing people away... (that whole fear of getting your heart stomped on thing)
You sound like you are "handling" her the right way, making her comfortable, not putting pressure on her, and stopping when she says to... There's a but I have there that I can't quite bring myself to say as a woman...
What's her family history like? Talking about sex is one thing, clinical is one way, emotional is something completely different, is her family affectionate?
She really sounds like she's afraid of her own feelings and her own sexuality, which is also somewhat normal.... maybe, when she's of age, she wants to pop into her and she can ask her questions...
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