I'm assuming you've explained this all to her, right? If she really loves you, she'll support you with trying to get drafted. Sure, she'll be disappointed that you can't visit. But she should support you with your dream as well.
Besides, if you do get drafted, theres is a huge chance that you'll be sent somewhere where she won't be. Causing more distance. Either you two will make the relationship work, or you wont. Time will tell. But right now you've got to get this girl on the phone and have a good long talk about things.
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