|
besides the things mentioned above about libido, words and scenarios might help(dirty speak with a twist). let her relax and start with a story about how (insert theme) lets say, a studly knight came home from the crusades and was looking for his damsil...etc and what is going to do with her...
Another things that works( for me) is the aid of a toy or 2)...One for herself to explore and find the places on/in her that get her going. Let her do that by herself first and then, when she is getting have her show you.
Maybe have a theme nite once in a while(subby and I) love those...You can dress the part or just let her know about a theme in your head....shoot I give subby a few thoughts about what I will do to her after she falls asleep, to which I follow though on about 1/2 the time (when I feel) like it and it keeps her thinking, and either way she has a great day. If I to things, she warm and fully and if I don't she tries harder to please, I do do thing....and we are both winners.
Good luck I hope it helps.
__________________
LEATHER, LATEX and LACE "SSC"
"Nothing That Gives Pleasure is Bad"
Quality is for those who know
what they want and are at peace with what they have.
"S/M is about emotion; the erotic tension between my impulse toward something and my resistance against it."-- Virginia Barker
|