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Originally Posted by HalcyonDaze
For the record, she's been both bulemic and anorexic in the past (anorexic before I knew her, bulemic when we started dating, stopped about 6 months ago). I spend enough time with her now to know that she is eating well and is at a healthy weight, but she sometimes seems to still have the mindset of someone with a disorder.
She goes to therapy, too. I just want to know what I, personally, should be doing for her and acting like when she's in one of those moods.
I've been tempted to act as CityOfAngels recommends, but given her history, I don't want to upset her, y'know?
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If you know her doc you might want to contact them and let them know about these bouts of self loathing. This is important info for a shrink to have. If you don't know the doc you might want to talk to a family member that you trust to get the info to the doc without confronting her about it. Relapse rates for young women with eating disorders are VERY high even with help, the best thing to do is to get her the best help you can and in this case it probably means getting accurate outside information on her mental state to her shrink.