Thinking she's over weight all the time will be leading her in a deadly direction. She needs to talk to someone, and not you. There is nothing you can do or say that will make her feel better. My wife has suffered from both types of eating disorders for years, and it's not fun to go through. She's better now, but it's also medically controlled. She has good days, and bad days, but the meds have helped. Except she can't loose any weight, which is a side effect of the meds.
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