I tell my SO when to expect it, and he's a smart one so he's got me figured out more than I do. He usually gets to go out with his friends when I feel too awful to leave the house. And I try to not be too mean or snappy. I always apologize if I do get snippy or mean. He never calls me on it. He's so sweet and takes such good care of me. There's no reason to get cranky over it if your SO gets you the wrong flowers or candy. Take a minute and realize that he's at least trying. And if you can't realize it that week, think about it some other time. We're close enough to deal with it together. I'm glad that he doesn't run for the hills.
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