hmmmm...I just read this, and I guess that the question of whether or not y'all are going to break up is a moot point. At this point, I (personally) would be prepared to give yourself some time, and to tell your ex that you need some time to adjust. If you still love her, and she's decided she's trying to move on, then the contact is going to make it harder. I might try to talk it out/patch things up for a short period of time, but if it ain't working, then there comes a point to kill contact for a while. You can resume contact later after you've had time to heal and (hopefully) explore a relationship.....actually, screw that. What I think you need is some good, old-fashioned fast and loose college sex. Always helps with a hang-over of the broken heart. I wouldn't burn the bridge with your ex-girlfriend, but I wouldn't remain in a defacto relationship that's only going to result in your feeling hurt and used, with the heartache never receding.
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