I think generally women do have more powerful, full body, orgasms which in my opinion equals better. I can't do multiples, so
to those that can.
One thing I have is really strong PC muscles, so my SO can really experience my orgasms with me since I squeeze the crap out of him. I can sometimes feel his, but it doesn't really heighten my pleasure to do so, like mine do for him.
And since no one has mentioned it yet: you guys looking for some G-spot action should google "Anero". The hubbies got one and he seems to like it so far. You're supposed to be able to orgasm without touching yourself using one of these.