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So you were hook up buddies and friends too? Or were you just hook up buddies? If she was a friend before then she could have a desire to repair that part of your relationship and leave the hooking up alone.
Or she could have tried to get back with her Ex and reaized that either it wasn't going to happen or at least not in the way she wanted. In that case you were the fall back choice. I am not jaded, but without a lot more info its hard to figure out her motives. I would just be cautious (sp?) and feel it out over the phone before meeting her. You can always say you're 'busy'
Also how did things get worse and worse? Were you reading more into the relationship than what was actually there and when it got 'worse' it just wasn't going the way you wanted? I know you were concise for our sakes but throw out a little more info so we can get a better feel on what you're asking.
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